Sure, there have been a few men who have claimed to be allies and peaked my interest since then - I had a two-week fling with a Brit on a work visa and an unexpected romance with an old friend - but nothing has worked out. And when I started connecting the dots, I realized that these men who claimed to support women were often bringing me down the most. You probably know one or 10, if you, like me, went to a woke-obsessed liberal arts college of these self-proclaimed feminists. Or the guys who mansplain mansplaining to you on the first date. We all love being told that we are naturally beautiful, in theory. My Fenty foundation makes me feel like a queen.