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What do you say about the reverse? I mean, I can see why an older man would want to date a younger woman - physically that is, but why would a year-old woman want to date a man 45 or more? I can totally understand why older men go for younger women. Time creates wisdom - but it also creates responsibilities and complications - mortgage, kids, career, etc. All of this makes dating more and more complex as we get older.

I was married to a men that was 10 years older than me. His sex drive was amazing at 48 years old when we got sapareted, it was a little boring but becaue he had health issues. Now I am 42 and dating a amazing 52 years old and we go crazy. When sex stop in a marriage is because health issue or love is gone that we dont care anymore and we stay on a marriage because you are just used to eachother.

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So I dont agree older men sucks. The problem is she only wants it around once per week, so I walk around constantly horny. Your man needs to either seek medical advice or some couch time with a therapist.

40 year old man dating 55 year old woman

The only other reason excluding medical concerns for a man not to want to have sex with his wife is that he is getting is needs taking care of somewhere else. Sorry you have wasted your time on an ungrateful selfish man. I just turned 69 and look really good and still workout like I did years ago.

Sexually speaking I love sex and can keep up easily with my 42 year old girlfriend and no I never have used Viagra. Also my girlfriend tells me that I treat her like a real person and actually know how to have a conversation and really enjoys my bedside talents. I am 45 Just got married in June, 1st marriage, My wife is 22 Dated for two years no sex.

I was kinda creeped out by age difference. It took two years to see where her head was, she was 20 at the time. I am 27 engaged to a 48 year old man. I can honestly say that when I first met him, I had no clue that he was his ageI knew he was legal because we worked together. Early to mid 30s yeah, but no one could have made me believe that this man was 46 when we met that was his age.

I love him dearly and he has been the best father to my children, and an even better man to me. My family was very much against him and I dating because of his age but in time they have grown to love and adore him just as much as I do.

He told me that I was mature, and that he usually never goes for a woman my age but there was something about me that he wanted.

I literally gave a coworker my number and told her that he was going to be mine. Sexually he is everything!

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My friends joke and ask have we ran out of Viagra yet, I would be horrified at what he would do to me ifnue ever took one of those. Our union is perfect and we have yet to have an issue about our age difference. I love him and would not trade him for anything in the world. He said to me once - as women we always ask y?

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Ashleythat was totally sweet! There seems to be such a stigma concerning the latter. This may sound corny but I feel we are soul mates. I was seeing someone exactly the same age difference are you. I work within his place of work but hes of a much higher rank than me, plus he only got divorsed two years ago so I dont know if hes still coming to terms with that?

I just no that there was a massive connection bewteen us both. I do really miss him. Ashley, I would like to thank you for your post. We live in a world of superficial belief.

Yet here I am going to be 53 and yes I do look very. We have everything in common and yes we will be married. She is really that soulmate that we do desperately want.

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Good luck with all. Oh wow this sounds so similar to my story! He treats me with so much respect and love. Hopefully kids could still be a chance too. Except, if you are happily married to this man then what made you visit this site? This article was so enlightening. And because of her inexperience in relationships, he feels he can control her.

Even more sad that her self-esteem is so low that she thinks this is the best she can do. The controlling and exploitative behaviors, along with the attempts to make his ex jealous are all warning signs of abusive behaviors. If there are abusive behaviors, over time they tend to get worse. Praying for her best. My man is 69, and I am I will not lose a good man because of age.

I am 60 and I am very interested in a woman co-worker who is There is nothing weird about it at all. Women are always more mature than their years and men usually less mature than their years. I think she feels the same way but there is still some work to do in that regard.

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If we do end up getting together I will be the happiest person in the world and I know I can make her happy too. Why are all the something female exceptions trying to justify the trend - to encourage older guys to creep on college girls? To tell men to just go for it and keep ignoring all the perfectly great women over age 29 like they are trash? Too bad women live longer than menit would probably be more humane if women just croaked on their 40th birthdays because it looks like they are all doomed to die alone of bed sores in nursing homes.

Thanks, men, for sticking around and taking care of us ladies in our old age not! I am 68 and have a year-old girlfriend. We have talked about the pros and the cons of life and we are going with the flow. One day at a time. What about couples that use this God put us together. Similar to Selena, I met my husband when I was 35 and he was At the time, the 12 years was a non-issue.

Fast forward to me hitting my prime at 41, and him slowing down at 53and it DID become a problem. He stopped wanting to travel and have fun with me.

And frankly, he started aging really fast. He started looking 60, whereas he looked younger than his age when we met.

We became incompatible, now divorcing. But it might be a problem later. I am a 53 year old man, and am working up to compete in my first Olympic length triathlon, next year. Yes, I have to work harder to achieve my goals than a 30 year old, but I still can achieve them. I plan to travel and have fun, and if someone 20 years my junior, who is amazingly intelligent AND still liked my was wanting to have a family, I am willing to negotiate terms and conditions.

Italian well walking around the word since 18. He does not like to enjoy life not have the time since his demanding job take most of the time. Ithis not about age, it is about the desire to enjoy life st the fullest. Seems that you are doing just find and if you find that special young gal to be with you why not? Good luck! I mean my god how could any woman let her man work that many hours without telling the guy that the kids can pay for their own college and all that sort that guy is working that kind of hours why.

He was busy setting up house with her he cash in his 30 thousand dollors and pay down on a condo for her and he put it in her name how stupid is that. Alba, suppose instead of a lack of performance your husband got prostate cancer or MS. Would you divorce him then? Did you take vows that said something along the line.

I met her when I was 39 and she was We love each other.

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No one is promised tomorrow. But can l ask all guys over 50, would you cheat on your younger woman? There you go Bob! You said it right!

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Good luck to you and to all!! I agree with you completelyCamilla cannot judge every man the same.

Why not? You are both adults. I understand your concern given the ""societal norms" regarding what is considered appropriate relationships, but if you both like each other, why not? It is no ones business but yours. At the end of the day-it's just. I'm 41 years old lady, and have always been attracted to older guys since I was 18, my first boyfriend was 34 and I was just 18 years old and when I was. 34 years old I dated a 62 year old man and had a very good sex life, at that time that's what I needed but now at. 41 years old what I craved is companionship, affection not so much just sex. Dec 31,   A year-old should date somebody at least A year-old should stick with someone at least For somebody aged 70, the bottom limit of respectability is

Although I know that sex is important in a relationship, I firmly believed that sex is just a complement of the relationship, I would be more concerned if you only show me affection inside the bedroom, but what about outside the bedroom?

I am getting older faster than he is. So it varies by lifestage. If you happen to meet someone and get on very well and fall in love as we did then it may be worth navigating the obstacles. No problem at first, but as the years go by the problems grow. Problems in all areas.

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It will happen, just a matter of when. I am just as capable and willing in the bedroom as any 20 year old guy. Heck even men in their mid 40s are not the same as 30s. I would love sex several times a day. A man in his 30s is down a man in his 50s you are lucky if he can get it up that much. Experience counts for a lot, IMHO. And with some of these relationships with years differences, the men will be in their 60s when the woman begins to hit her prime.

But the majority will not be able to keep up. It is rather common to hear men complain about their women not giving it up enough. And most times she cannot even last as long as I want too. Ray you are the male unicorn right? You would be amazed how many men your age say the same thing! Another 2 years? Just eat well and work out? All of the older men did that that I dated and it made zero difference. Seriously if I had a dime for every man in their 50s that said what you did I would be a rich lady!

I mean it most only be men in their 80s and 90s who need viagra? I have sex 3 times a day, 3 days a week.

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Almost always twice with my wife and once by myself. I have no issues with erections, and she seems to enjoy it. So quality of sex is not as important as quantity? I mean, who the Hell has time to screw 2 or 3 times a day? If a man is doing it 3 times a day, he needs to get a life. As a 52 year old guy, I think your problems are much deeper than the number! I have a physique better than most 20 or 30 year old guys - - and have more stamina and tenderness in the bedroom than them, as well.

Sounds like your guy has given up, which is a state of mind, not a matter of age. Yet another male unicorn! Seriously ever dude over 50 looks 35 and is in great shape right? Or at least all of those commenting on here!

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And they all have the stamina of 30 year olds. Quick to shoot down what these men say.

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These men exist. Maybe the problem is the outlet and not the plug. Reading the comments of men in my opinion demonstrates the exact point I am trying to make. She also experiences physical changes that may make it difficult to have sex or require a change in how she does. On the flip side is the male response to this age related decline I call it the 3ds defen denydeflect.

How dare you accuse me of slowing down in bed. These is usually followed by a personal jab or name calling. Because men think all other men their age are stallions in bed.

Men lie to each other about using the little blue pill and rarely if at all do men discuss this issue with each other. What results is that men struggling with age related changes reach the conclusion that they are all along and something is clearly wrong with them. Or the women blame themselves thinking the decreases drive or ED is their fault. Everybody will agree with you that both men and women have declined sex drives as they age. One thing that has stayed the same is my desire to have sex is just as strong as it was when I was younger.

So the point is yes as we get older we will slow down but that does not mean that we cannot get better as we get older. If all else fails then there is always a prescription to be had that can help in most cases. If sex is the only factor you are considering then you are probably right. It seems you put a lot of weight on looks, physical shape, and sexual performance for a happy marriage. I was married 24 years to my younger wife before cancer took her several years ago. It was never an issue.

Women can have all the sex they want to have without the need to get married. If you build your marriage on sex it is likely going to fail at some point regardless of any age gap.

We are all going to experience health issues at some point, nobody is exempt from it. Some of us maybe sooner than we would like, in my case my younger wives health declined. LOL john such a typical response from a man having problems in the bedroom.

Telling it like it is is not mean spirited. I think YOUR husband might be the problem. My uncles and aunts, from both paternal and maternal side, on an average have an age gap of 10 years between them. My grandparents had 14 years between them. In short, it depends on the people involved in the relationship. This really helped me.

I love my guy so much and he is so good to me. Right now I cannot imagine falling out of love with him and the thought of it brings me to tears. I am 31 and he is He still works out and is in great shape and I constantly worry about our future and taking the next step. But the incompatibility in a few years is something I may not be prepared for. Now the thought of that is not attractive.

I know we should call the quits now to save the heartache and time but I am terrified because he is the only man that has ever conquered me. But maybe because he is older. And we been together since, and yes we still love each other. I was 19 and he was 32 when we began to date. I am in that situation now and trying to determine whether it makes sense to continue or whether I should just break it off.

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Good luck with your decision. And be like. Sigh fine. Or see yah and yeah that was great, I experienced that by myself!!! Wait Then why did. Then ill be widow at an older age and die with out that grow old togther cause he already died quite a bit before I was close to aging in.

I was a cna geriatrics and am concerned of our future to where he married his future caretaker and ill be left screwed with angry underpaid. And withoutmy loving husband a hand to squeeze. I know thats all. I could grow. I looove him. With what I said do i? Or am.

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I just depressed? Perhaps crazy Or honest. We alll die. But freaking crap I didnt want at allll to die that much earlier than my husband. Grow old together, not watch you grow hecka old slowly die while I slowly watch and grow a hurt back to now deal with alone and poor due to medication s and medical bills and funeral.

Here, two experts weigh in on the benefits of dating an older man, as well as the potential drawbacks. While an older man dating a younger woman tends to raise less eyebrows than a woman's romance with a younger manthe dynamic isn't exactly stigma-free-particularly when the age gap is significant.

Three years later, search husbandnotdad on Instagram and you'll find a collection of smiling couples; on Twitterthe same hashtag's happy photos are interspersed with searingly critical comments, which arguably confirms Thornton's point. When women over 40 find themselves drawn to someone who's older, they are less of a target for those who cry 'daddy issues. A range of generation gap-related issues more on those below can be easier to bridge when you're over 40 as well. Stability, a strong sense of self, and advancement in his career are things older men can potentially bring to the table more often than a man in his 20s or 30s can, says Sherman.

That said, extra years of life experience do often lead to greater maturity in relationships, and more life wisdom. A woman in her 40s or older has plenty of hard-won lessons and accomplishments of her own to tout, of course. She just might love getting involved with a person who's on equally-solid ground and has been there for awhile. Maybe you're dating after a divorceand you're a single mom who needs to carve out the time for a love life. A man who's already been married and raised kids has no carpool schedules to contend with, which can mean he's got more time to plan amazing dates.

According to Lester, if you're seeing someone who is ten or more years older than you, "he's likely to have children who are less dependent on him, and have more free time-which can be particularly helpful if your kids are still more dependent. As John and Lauren got older, however, the creepiness rule differed from how people actually responded. Yet according to the survey, 37 was well outside the age range of what is socially acceptable. The results also showed that the creepiness rule is too restrictive about how old you can date when you are young, but becomes too lenient as you get older.

Yet, people surveyed were fine with John and Lauren seeing someone in their early 30's. When John and Lauren are 60, the creepiness rule allows them to date anyone older than themselves the official cap is However, society places more restrictive age limits of 71 and 75 respectively. Overall, the creepiness rule does not accurately represent what people find socially acceptable; people are more judgmental than what the creepiness rule implies. If the creepiness rule is wrong, then I needed a new rule to guide my non-existent love life.

As I reviewed the data, I realized that one rule was not enough. Society has different expectations for men and women - men can date younger than women and women can date older than men.

When it comes to dating older, women have the advantage. According to the survey, a 20 year-old John can date someone who is However, when Lauren is 30, she is supposed to date someone who is at least I not only created separate rules for men and women but also created different rules to determine how old and how young each gender can date. The charts below compares the outputs of the revised rules with the predictions of the original creepiness rule.

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In almost all scenarios, the revised rules are more restrictive than what the creepiness rule would suggest. I think there are opportunities to build on this oh-so-important research.

What is the actual average age difference between couples? How would this research translate to same-sex relationships?

At the end of the day, this article was about how people think, not how people should think. Look for relationships that just make you happy. If you liked this article, visit LateNightFroyo.



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